How to fall in love or may be its doubt:--
As i described about the love in my last blog,, now matter is that how we fall in love ?? some body say tat "ITS ALL TALK NONSENSE: becoz they are bold as well as rude so we cant understand them about the purity of LOVE,. when we see every body we think just"HOW THE PERSON HE/SHE IS??? " IS HE TRUE?? IS THERE ANY PAST OF HIM/HER?? and extra.. becoz then we don't know more about that person,, so we confuse in every step of understanding, slowly slowly while we know more about that person then our interset increases more and more,, we become open with her/him. then we own give a name to that relation called"FRIENDSHIP".. this is just a formal name to show others that we are not strangers.. when we are in problems then we firstly tell to our friend, we think that he/she is close to us . the one day ,,, we feel some special in our heart some more attractive some more closest. then we think that "WE FALL IN LOVE".
Love and Stress
Love and stress have a complex relationship. Stress can either induce people to seek out others or to isolate themselves. When people are under moderate stress, they search for comforting, pleasurable experiences. Such experiences may include food, sex, touch, and bonding with other people. The levels of stress must be manageable, however, for people to seek out other people. Under extreme stress, social relationships are more likely to break down than to be built.
When we are under stress, our bodies release cortisol. In people who have just fallen in love, the levels of cortisol in their blood tend to be higher. Cortisol, in turn, triggers the release of Oxycontin and vasopressin.
The Mystery Maintained
I've heard some people say that knowing the biologic basis of love removes its mystery and thus its magic. To them, I say, "Take heart." This article can only provide a small taste of what we know about the complexity of a brain in love. There is also still much about love and the human brain that we have yet to discover. Learning about the biology of love reminds me that there's still a whole lot more mystery, and much of it is encased in the few pounds of neurons I carry around each day.


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